Tips Defend Marriage Problems When Weakened Economy

GGL (Get Great Life) - does not always run smoothly. You could have lived well off this year, but next year the opposite happened.These economic problems influence the course of your marriage life. For example, a husband who just lost his job and never got a new job, will easily stressed. Experienced depression and stress can make it easily ignited emotions. A wife who will not understand it, would get angry carried. As a result of marriage that had deep calm, so often colored noise.



Is there a way so that the above does not happen? Psychologists who often provide advice on romance and popular after appearing on a talk show Oprah Winfrey, Dr.. Phil McGraw gave some suggestions:

1. Know and Find the Solution to the problem 
When you feel emotion, you do not try it out on her husband. Instead of anger, talk with him what makes you emotional. "You have to deal with your spouse and say, 'we were in trouble and we have to solve this together", so the words of Dr. suggested. Phil.If it makes you upset the family's financial situation, talk to your husband what the best solution that can be done to resolve the issue. Angry at her husband, will not make your financial condition improves. Husband can increase stress and not necessarily that his efforts make a positive impact on the family economy is stable again.

2. Do not Cover Sadness or Concerns Perceived 
Some men have a very high ego. So they do not want to show sadness or fear when it is perceived.According to Dr. Phil, is best done just to show fear or sadness is. Let your wife know that you are indeed fragile middle. When my wife understand your condition, he can better understand and not easily ignited emotions.

3. Honest 
Dr. Phil confirmed that effective communication starts from honesty. "If you say you will find a job, so look for that job," he said. "Do not say it as if you did not mean it," he added. The husband should also be more open to input from her partner.

4. Do not be Ashamed to Ask for Help 
Dr. Phil suggested that husbands or wives do not be afraid to admit that they can not solve these economic problems alone. The husband was the one who usually difficult to admit it because their ego. And if addressed together, these problems can be more quickly done.

For example, when your credit card debt being pursued very much, if you continue to bury the problem itself, not necessarily able to finish. Like others, if you say to your husband, the husband might be able to help you find the money to pay for the forest.

5. Set Priorities 
When economic problems hit, make a list which should be prioritized first. Does it pay the mortgage, school fees, electricity and telephone, and so on. You and your partner should discuss this problem together, so that no overlap will occur or even no payment is missed.

6. Make It Real Plans
 "The difference between dreams and plans is the timeline," said Dr. Phil. When you and your husband make a plan, create also a list of when the plan was executed and how can it be realized. For example, in a week, the problem of husbands who have not got a job should be completed soon. If it turns out in a week he was still unemployed, the evaluation plan, find the location where and correct mistakes. In making the plan you should choose the things that are realistic for the run. (nan/53/11)

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