The reason, because they are too shy to express hope or fear her lover would be offended by his words. These seven things she really wanted to talk about with her boyfriend, but was too shy to express as reported by eHarmony.
1. Want to cook Love Food For him
Rarely a man who demanded her lover to be able to cook delicious food. But many men who hope the lovers have the ability for it. Only, he was reluctant to disclose it for fear of making her lover offended if he asked a woman's ability to cook. Not to mention, if it turns out his girlfriend refused to make him some food, it will make him ashamed.
2. Talking about Sex Problem Early
Men are often interested in talking about sex, but she only dared to express it to his fellow man. They are generally embarrassed talking about sex on a lover in the period of courtship, for fear of being considered dirty and sex-maniac-brained. And not for that, but indeed the curiosity of men to things that are still largely taboo of talking about this.'I have a high libido level, what about you?', Imagine if you heard that question from a lover. It's going to feel shock. It also considered the man so that he avoids discussing it, even though he was very curious.
3. Money
Should never question the financial condition of man, unless you are engaged or planning to get married. Salary is a little big-business men who are very personal and easy to nudge his ego. Money is a sensitive topic that does not want discussed men, especially his girlfriend.
4. Who's Paying the Bill's Restaurant?
Cultures that exist today, men who deserve to pay for expenses dating from the street, watching and eating at restaurants. But there are times when they want reciprocity, not necessarily the man who paid for her lover. But the prestige and self-esteem often makes them reluctant to express them. Men expect women to share their own consciousness had to pay for a date.
5. Commitment
Men have a reputation of fear of commitment. But for some men, actually not a fear to be together forever with one person but not to worry things will go according to expectations. They are afraid to experience new things that could change their lives forever. Men are also afraid of losing time 'playing' and having fun with her friends.
6. Not Only Men Should initiative
During this time, the man who is always required to make the initiative in building a relationship. For example, the first man lumrahnya a date, to approach, chase women or apply. In her heart of hearts, he also wanted to get preferential treatment of women. They also want first woman approached and asked out. However, ego and self-esteem often conquers all.
7. Hoping Beloved Also Likes Her hobbies
Men like to smell things sports, electronics or automotive. While women generally prefer things sweet, funny and romantic. Actually he has no problem with women who are feminine delight, but when her boyfriend also likes football or gadget enthusiast, he would feel more comfortable. Only, they usually hesitate to invite her lover to watch a football game, for fear she would get bored. (nan/40/11)
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