Some parents complained their children to be spoiled. It happened karenan the grandfather and grandmother will often keep up with all her grandchildren. Are you experiencing similar problems?Psychologist who also wrote the book "Parenting Without Power Struggles', Susan Stiffelman, try to give some suggestions for you. Here are some things you can do so that your child does not continue to be pampered grandfather and grandmother, as quoted by the Huffington Post:1. Discuss with your parents about what you really expect and want. If it is necessary, discuss in detail everything. For example, when children have to sleep, do homework, play, and others. If that child is old enough and understand, there is no harm in them participate in the discussion are invited. Tell the child, if you expect him to want to follow what the words of his grandparents, without anger or tears.2. Make parents understand that they have your permission to act decisively on the children if needed. This firmness you need to say, because the grandparents are often too good on her grandchildren. Your parents really adore your children and they want the opposite also occurs. Tell your parents, they may be gentle and kind to children, while you are there, too. But if you're working or not, ask them to not be too indulgent.3. Realistic. You must understand that the grandparents feel they have a special relationship with his grandson. They are happy to indulge and allow the child to do things that you are not allowed. The grandfather and grandmother took that as part of the fun. So try to talk with your parents to find a solution how to enable them to not give up easily when faced with the children. (nan/38/11)
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