1. Push Him To Do Challenges
When you see your child gifted in one area, asahlah ability and challenge him to do something more. For example if your child is gifted in the arts, do not Include him in classical art class but Challenge him to attend classes more dynamic contemporary art.
"The old man trapped in a situation where they do not want her to feel uncomfortable. That means you think that your child is not able to do it," says Susan Bartell, PsyD, author of 'The Top 50 Questions Kids Ask'.
Though the children should be encouraged to do something more in order to improve his confidence. If they fail in one area, they will excel in the field of the others.
2. Teach Him To Mingle and Socialize
"Many children who are not confident when joining a group," said Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, author of 'Smart Parenting for Smart Kids'.
Encourage your child to observe what is being done by a group of kids in front of him, and looking for 'loopholes' in order to enter into the group. For example, if there is a group of children playing ball, do not teach your child to ask 'Can I go play?', Because it will stop the running game and allow members of the group answered 'No'.
Rather, teach your child Agr catch the ball that was thrown out and throw back to the group members then mingled with them directly. "Now he's more is in play because the game is still running when he entered," continued Dr. Moore.
3. Proud to Reduce Pain
According to Susan Fletcher, Ph.D., author of Parenting 'In The Smart Zone', rather than the often expressed a sense of pride in the child after he finished something right, it's good jik you ask him 'are you proud of yourself?'. Then ask your child, what will he do to achieve success.
"Talking about the ability of children with them directly, can increase his confidence," explained Fletcher. (nan/49/11)
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