GGL (Get Great
Life) - Men are often regarded as being less sensitive. However,
when it comes to confidence, he could be more fragile than women.Numerous
studies, as quoted from my self development shows, men were more difficult to
cultivate their self-confidence than women. These six things he could
remove his confidence quickly.
1. Financial Matters
Having little
money is a major factor in the male self-distrust. Already since a long
time, he considered the backbone of the family. Therefore, he sure will
get good response from the family of a wife or girlfriend, if sufficient income
or more. Men also feel appreciated if save quite a lot of money in
'pockets'.
2. Too
Dominant couples
Women who are too
dominant in the relationship, can remove the self-confidence in men.Because it
can make it look weak in front of his friends and others.
3. Rejection
Rejection here
are not always on the approach. But it could also parental refusal
girlfriend of their relationship, or a hostile attitude from the woman's
family. Courtship is built up quite a while, but had to drop out in the
middle of the road can leave permanent scars on his ego, and damage confidence.
4. Betrayed
It took that long
for a man to commit, in a romantic relationship or marriage. When the
commitment was destroyed because she had an affair, other than a broken heart,
his confidence is also torn. Because he could not be considered a pretty
good lover, so her partner turned to another man. Will not take long for
him to cultivate his confidence and start another love story.
5. Problems
in the Workplace
Most men want to
be appreciated, including the time in the work environment. Problems in
the workplace will make him feel so people are less able to do a good job. Therefore,
most men are reluctant to talk about their partner's office.
6. Criticized
in Public Places
Most men want to
look like a leader when walking with his girlfriend in a public place. So when her boyfriend criticize or make jokes that disfigure herself in public, he will feel insulted and his confidence will fade. (nan/13/11)
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