4 Serious Topics Discussed Compulsory Husband and wife

GGL (Get Great Life) - Due to lazy argued, many couples often avoid the topic of serious discussion. But it can actually destroy the unpreparedness of domestic life in the future. Here are five topics that must be seriously discussed by couples who want or already married, as quoted from womansday.

1. Who Will Manage Finance? 
Surveys conducted by the American Psychological Association proves that lately more and more couples are divorcing because of financial problems. This survey also reveals that money is one of the biggest problems that lead to stress in domestic life. It is therefore important that you and your partner are in a misunderstanding in terms of managing finances.According to Taffy Wagner, financial expert and CEO MoneyTalkMatters, "Ask your partner, how it manages its finances while still single? Did he do it right or precisely wrong? Then the next step, decide who will be in charge of finance. Remember that whoever becomes responsible person, should not work in secret, the couple must know everything about your finances as well. "

2. Are You Planning Have Children? When? 
Many people who thought that partner has the same desire in terms of the child. But reality is not. "It's quite surprising, there are many couples who do not talk about it even after they were married," says Susan Piver, author of 'The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do".Give proper welds on the couple why you want to have children (or want to delay). This topic is quite sensitive, therefore it is better if you talk about at dinner or a weekend, where the spouse or yourself in a relaxed state. If a partner gives excuse not to your liking, do not scold him. The purpose of this conversation is 'vision and mission of the same' rather than, 'won argmen'.

3. Desired Sex How Often? 
Although not a major factor, but the difference in views on how often or how you and your partner will have sex, can make the wedding was in the balance. According to Piver, "Talk it out with a gentle tone, tell him what you want and ask what he wants. Tell them that you do not want this to be a problem later." Quality of sex is also one way to satisfy your partner. In a marriage, a happy couple is one thing to do. Sex is one way.

4. Vacations Go Where? 
How to spend one's vacation time is not the same. There is a way to spend it alone, some are celebrating the holiday with a feast. Talking about how you spend your vacation time, it is important to avoid communication errors. For example, determining to go to the house of your parents or parent pairs during holidays. (nan/27/11)

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