One being, although it could diminish the spontaneous interest in the he to you. It's her attitude that you should avoid during a first date, as quoted from Selfgrowth.
1. Moving Haste
Unconsciously, body language can show a person's emotional condition. When meeting with a guy you like, do not do the movement is too fast. For example, take a glass too quickly to spill, walking in a hurry or open / close the bag as fast as lightning. Reported by AskMen, hasty movement that shows you are too nervous. The man can also assume you're not comfortable nearby. When dating, make the impression you are a woman of calm, in control and confident.
2. Quick nod to
New one or two sentences that he utters, you rush nodded. As a result, all nodding your date more than talk. Perhaps you meant to please the him to justify all his words. But what he had captured it could be otherwise. He'll think you're not seriously listen to him and hope he soon put an end to his story. In general, excessive nod would be considered as a sign someone is not interested in the topics discussed. No matter the occasional nod if you agree with his words, but not too often.
3. Crossing Hand
Never confront your date with folded hands. This movement shows you defensive; trying to shut down. As a result, the he will feel you are being cold and less interested in him.According to body language expert Robert Phipps, hand gestures are a sign if someone is being open and receptive to other people. When the meeting date, place your hands at your sides or behind your back."The attitude of this body that you are not afraid and ready to accept whatever is in front of you," said Robert.
4. Movement of Less Important
Playing the spoons / forks, swipe-swipe a handkerchief or tapping your fingers on the table can create the impression of disinterest, low confidence and anxiety. Some men will even consider you bored with the meeting date. When dating, do not play an object near you and try not to do a lot of movement is less important. Focus on your date, calm and let your confidence out on its own.
5. Touch it with Mesra
It will probably crossed the desire to hold hands or face when adjacent to it. Hey, remember, this is just a first date. As much as any desire you to touch it, immediately undo intention. The he will think you are too aggressive or 'slut'. Wait until he takes the initiative first, welcome 'invitation'. But limit your actions; holding hands or touching his shoulder was enough. (nan/5812)
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